Daniel Parke Custis

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Daniel Parke Custis
Born Daniel Lewis Parke Custis
(1711-10-15)October 15, 1711
York County, Virginia, British America
Died July 8, 1757(1757-07-08) (aged 45)
New Kent County, Virginia, British America
Cause of death Heart attack
Resting place Bruton Parish Episcopal Church Cemetery
Nationality American
Occupation Planter
Spouse(s) Martha Dandridge (m. 1750–57)
Children Daniel Parke Custis, Jr.
Frances Parke Custis
John Parke "Jacky" Custis
Martha Parke "Patsy" Custis
Parent(s) John Custis
Frances Parke Custis
Relatives Daniel Parke (maternal grandfather)

Daniel Lewis Parke Custis (October 15, 1711[1] – July 8, 1757) was an American planter who was the first husband of Martha Dandridge. After his death, Dandridge married George Washington, one of the Founding Fathers of the United States and the nation's first president.

Early life and career

Custis was born in York County, Virginia, one of two children of John Custis (1678–1749), a powerful member of Virginia's Governor's Council, and Frances Parke Custis. The Custis family were one of the wealthiest and socially prominent of Virginia.[2] Custis' mother Frances was the daughter of Daniel Parke, a political enemy of the Custises.[3]

As Daniel Custis was the sole male heir in the Custis family, he inherited the Southern plantations owned by his father.[4] However, he did not choose to take a leading role in colonial Virginia politics.

Marriage and children

At the age of 37, Custis met 16-year-old Martha Dandridge at the St. Peter's Church where Martha attended and Custis was a vestryman.[5][6] Custis' father John disapproved of the relationship but eventually relented. After a two-year courtship, Custis and Dandridge were married on May 15, 1750.[7] The couple lived at Custis' plantation called the White House in New Kent County, Virginia.[4]

They had four children:[8]

  • Daniel Parke Custis, Jr. (November 19, 1751 – February 19, 1754)
  • Frances Parke Custis (April 12, 1753 – April 1, 1757)
  • John Parke "Jacky" Custis (November 27, 1754 – November 5, 1781)
  • Martha Parke "Patsy" Custis (1756 – June 19, 1773)

Death and estate

Custis died on July 8, 1757 in New Kent County, Virginia, most likely of a heart attack.[9][10] He is buried in the graveyard of the Bruton Parish Church in Williamsburg, Virginia next to the two children he had with his wife, Daniel, Jr. and Frances Parke Custis.[11]

Two years after his death, on January 6, 1759, his widow Martha married George Washington.[5]


As Custis died intestate, his widow Martha received the lifetime use of one-third of his property (known as a "dower share"), while the other two-thirds was held in trust for their children. The January 1759 Custis estate also included at least 85 slaves.[12] According to the Mount Vernon slave census, by 1799 the dower share included 153 slaves. The October 1759 Custis estate inventory listed 17,779 acres (71.95 km2), or 27.78 square miles of land, spread over five counties.[13]

Upon Martha Custis's marriage to George Washington in 1759, her dower share came under his control, pursuant to the common law doctrine of seisin jure uxoris. He also became guardian of her two minor children, and administrator of the Custis estate. John Parke Custis was the only child to reach his majority, upon which he inherited the non-dower two-thirds of his father's estate.

Upon George Washington's death on December 14, 1799, the dower share and slaves reverted to Martha. Through a provision in his will, Washington directed that his 124 slaves be freed following his wife's death.[14] But, at her request, they were freed on January 1, 1801. However, because the dower slaves were part of the Custis estate, Martha Washington never had the legal power to free them.

When Martha died on May 22, 1802, her dower share reverted to the Custis estate. Because of Martha Washington's dower share, the estate could not be liquidated for more than 45 years. Martha's dower share was eventually divided between John Parke Custis's widow, Eleanor Calvert Custis Stuart, and their four children. Martha also bequeathed Elisha, the one slave that she owned herself, to her grandson George Washington Parke Custis.


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  8. Watson 2012 p.102
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  11. "Tombstone of Daniel Parke Custis, Bruton Parish Church, Williamsburg". marthawashington.us. Retrieved December 1, 2014.<templatestyles src="Module:Citation/CS1/styles.css"></templatestyles>
  12. The number is imprecise because the January 1759 Custis Estate inventory listed some enslaved mothers "with children," but didn't specify the number of children.
  13. "Account of Land and Acreage, Estate of Daniel Parke Custis", in Worthy Partner, pp. 103-04. This land inventory was incomplete, not listing Custis lots in Jamestown and Williamsburg.
  14. Washington's private letters indicate a plan to rent out the dower slaves to other plantations, with the income going toward purchasing them from the Custis Estate, and ultimately freeing them. This would have required the approval of all the Custis heirs to succeed, but it is not known why it was never implemented. See George Washington to Dr. David Stuart, February 7, 1796.